16 Things You Should Still Do For Your Girlfriend Even After You’ve Been Dating For A While

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#6 Master the art of flirting. Listen, as much as people say they’re tired of playing games, it’s a game. You tease them, they tease you.

Talk to her. And more importantly, talk about her.

Make sure you know where you want to go and what you want to do. If you don’t, avoid asking if she wants to do something and assume that she does. A woman likes a man that knows what he wants, from the larger scope of his life and ambitions to the minutiae, such as setting up dates and ordering at restaurants. If you don’t communicate your interest to a woman you like when you first meet, she can never see you as someone she’ll experience intimacy with. She’s already categorised you in her head.

It’s not about being in the friend zone, it’s about showing you care. But when it comes to getting girls to fall head over heels in love, all a guy really needs to do is show his lady friend that he really cares about her. A lot of guys try to talk themselves up so they’re “worthy” to pick up the girl they’re on a date with.

I hate to call them basics because I didn’t spend years of my life alone for my plan to be reduced to basics. But there is “leg work” involved. You’ll have to explore certain details for yourself whether it’s through me or not. We’re NOT changing the world here and it’s obvious since the beginning of time men have managed to land some pretty amazing and yes beautiful women too. It’s unimaginable and hard to believe every one of them got everything right all the time from the beginning.

However, keep your wits about you. Be careful. If you let your social life go, you’ll become more and more dependent on your girlfriend for socialization. And when this happens, her attraction to you will diminish and the relationship will quickly become unhealthy. I’m saying “man” for a reason.

  • Going to a university is a big change in a person’s life.
  • I know, it’s a big step, but it’s a crucial one.
  • Don’t be scared to make the follow-up phone call after the first date.
  • Women want a challenge just as much as we do, so don’t give too much away, especially in the early stages of dating, otherwise you’ll kill the thrill of the chase and she’ll quickly lose interest.

… But Don’t Wait Too Long Either

Remember, you’re still qualifying her. If they broke up for a stupid reason, or she doesn’t sound like she’s being 100% honest about what happened, alarm bells may rightfully be going off. You don’t have to razzle and dazzle them with Nobu, Sexy Fish, Novikov, and the whole Mayfair tour. She’s just looking to have a good time with you, and she doesn’t want to go to a flash place without you adding value to the encounter once you’re in there. You’ve got to be decisive.

It’s one of the biggest turnoffs a woman can experience. You’re going to have to be prepared to take the risk of losing the woman. Being in the friend zone is going to be more painful for both of you than losing her or the opportunity to know her.

For instance, if you know that you want to say, “Sarah, I just really like spending time with you and I want you to be my girlfriend,” it can help guide your conversation. Make sure you act differently towards her friends than you do to her so they know that she’s special to you. For instance, hang out with her friends as a group. Spending time with with one of her friends alone could send her mixed signals and make her think that you’re interested in her friend.

Talk to her about shared interests while on your outing. Be respectful to her by opening doors and not trying to move too fast to get to a physical relationship.

Suggest fun dates, discuss exclusivity and eventually ask her to be your girlfriend. It is important though, not to blast her with texts and maintain an air of mystery. In a recent deal breakers survey, 44% of women considered being bombarded with messages from a man a deal breaker. Play it a bit cool guys.

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